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Writing an effective parenting plan after a military divorce

On Behalf of | Feb 7, 2023 | Military Divorce

Divorce is rarely ever easy, and acclimating to life afterward can be just as challenging. If you are a parent coming from a marriage in which at least one spouse is an active military member, there might be a particular amount of uncertainty surrounding the formation of a parenting plan that actually works around an active military schedule.

The challenge of writing a parenting plan after a military divorce stems from the fact that at least one co-parent is likely to sporadically be away for long periods of time. Overcoming this unique obstacle requires that both parents keep an open mind about certain considerations when planning a visitation schedule.

Prioritize flexibility in your schedule

Planning around lengthy deployments is one of the key child custody considerations to keep in mind after a military divorce. One set schedule is not likely to be functional in the long term, so both parents must have the willingness to be flexible in either sacrificing parenting time or picking up the slack when military assignments come in.

Make reasonable travel plans

There can be a lot of travel involved when you are working to ensure that your child can spend time with an active-duty parent. It can be easy to lose sight of when travel starts to become excessive to the point of affecting your child’s school or social life. Maintaining a reasonable travel schedule might entail negotiating a compromise around special dates so as to cut down on travel without affecting actual parenting time.

Co-parenting after a military divorce is a uniquely challenging experience, but one that is worth undertaking for the sake of maintaining a healthy family dynamic. If you are struggling to create a functional parenting plan for your military family, undergoing amicable mediation can help yo arrive at a fair outcome.